Whatever you thought of Sheryl Sandberg's "Ban Bossy" campaign, you'll appreciate this response.  Smart young girls explain the difference between leadership and true bossiness, and how sometimes it takes a little of both to get the job done.  My guess is that #Banbossy was never meant to be taken literally, but it took an extreme stance to get people's attention and get them  thinking and talking about the word and its meaning. And now spin-off conversations like #BossyIs can pick up the bossy ball and run with it.